Attached to Love?

"Many people confuse attachment with love. But in attachment you become selfish, interested in your own pleasure, and you misuse love. You become possesive and try to gain the objects of your desires. Attachment creates bondage, while love bestows freedom." - Swami Rama.

Non attachment doesnt mean indifference, but to genuinly and selflessly love others. If understood properly, it means love. So how many of us are attached and how many are in love?? I guess it not only applies to relationships but also to life. It is only when we are attached to life that we feel the need to want more...and hence unsatisfaction breeds. But are we capable of love??